AI for sandwich generation caregivers (aging parents + kids)

The sandwich generation pain.

If you're somewhere between 40 and 60, you might be living it: a parent whose health is declining and kids who haven't moved out yet. The cognitive load is unbounded. Mom's cardiology follow-up, your daughter's IEP meeting, the prior auth your dad's insurance wants, the school pickup that conflicts with the pharmacy run. None of it is hard. All of it together is.

Most "personal assistant" apps assume you have one life to organize. Ezra was built for the case where you have three (yours, your parent's, your kid's), they overlap, and they're all happening through different inboxes and portals. You manage all of it from one iMessage thread instead.

Two calendars, one head.

Your mom's appointments, your kid's appointments, your own calendar. Ezra knows the shape of all of it and surfaces the conflicts before they happen.

do i have anything tuesday afternoon

Your day looks like: 9-12 work block, then mom's cardiologist at 2:30 (Group Health, you'd planned to drive her), then Mia's piano at 4:30. Nothing else. Want me to remind you to leave at 1:45 for mom's appointment?

Track Mom's medications without a clipboard.

Pharmacy refills, dosage changes, what the new specialist said about the old prescription. Ezra remembers. You can ask him later in plain English instead of digging through three different patient portals.

when does mom's metformin refill at walgreens

You picked up the last refill on the 22nd. 90-day supply, so the next one is mid-October. Want me to set a reminder for Oct 15 to call it in?

The sibling group chat doesn't have to be in your head.

"Did anyone bring dinner Sunday?" "Who's taking mom to the appointment Friday?" Ezra holds the thread of who said yes to what. You can drop something in and ask him later instead of scrolling back through 200 messages.

what did my sister say about thanksgiving

She said she'd take mom this year if you cover the Sunday before. You haven't responded yet. Want me to draft a reply?

Insurance and prior auth without losing the morning.

"Hi, this is calling about the pre-authorization for…" Ezra drafts the email or the call notes. Holds the reference numbers. Surfaces what you sent last time when they ask you to send it again.

need to email united about the denial for mom's MRI again

Drafted, using the same case reference as last time: "Hi, following up on case #4419082, the denial of Margaret Cohen's MRI dated July 2. The supporting documentation from Dr. Lee was submitted on July 9. Can you confirm receipt and provide a status update?" Want me to send it?

The "I keep meaning to" list, finally getting handled.

The thank-you note to Mom's neighbor who picked up the mail. The follow-up with the lawyer about the will. The thing the social worker said you should ask the doctor. Ezra remembers them and surfaces them when you have a minute.

what's still on my list for mom

Three things you've mentioned, none done yet: • Send thank-you to Linda for picking up mom's mail last week • Call Dr. Patel's office about the new prescription side effects • Forward will updates from Stevens & Stevens to your sister Want to start with one of these?

For people taking care of aging parents and their own kids.